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How to Be a Superhero without Supernatural Abilities | Wise Bread


How to Be a Superhero without Supernatural Abilities

by Craig Ford on 8 September 2010 (2 comments)


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I recently took a long drive to spend a short time with my 93 year-old-grandpa. Grandpa has always had an infectious smile where he happily shows off his pearly dentures. Grandpa loved his wife until death did them part. Mum told me how he used to help so much around the house when she was a baby. This was during a generation when dads didn’t typically do the whole baby thing. My grandpa was active in his local church and always participated in community activities. When I hear about everything he has accomplished in his 93 years, it reminds me that my grandpa is a hero.

A hero isn’t someone who wears a crimson cape. A hero is not someone who possesses super human strength. A hero is someone who consistently does amazing things over a lifetime.

My wife recently watched our three young kids for 10 days while I was traveling. Each day she wakes up ready to give up more of herself to give our kids an amazing childhood. She cleans, she scrubs, she changes, she washes. She does heroic activities on a daily basis.

I wish more "ordinary" people would be recognized for their extraordinary contribution to our lives. I wish that grandma and grandpa could get as much press time as our favorite TV celebrity. I wish we’d learn to idolize those who really make a difference instead of drooling over people with already inflated egos.

Case Study: Romance Movies

I sometimes wonder if I’ve ever seen a real romance movie. I’ve seen a lot of movies where two people meet each other, have strong feelings towards each other, overcome a difficulty, and then get married as the movie ends.

What does any of that have to do with love?

Love is not a strong feeling that we chase after and eventually capture.

Where is the Hollywood movie about the husband, wife, and kids? Where is the family that struggles to make ends meet as they touch base for just a moment to coordinate schedules? In their worn-down and fatigued resolve, they serve each other and honor each other.

That, dear friends, is where we find true love. That is where we witness a truly heroic marriage relationship.

Want to be extraordinary? Want to make a real contribution to this world?

10 ways to be a superhero without any supernatural abilities
  1. Think not only of your own interests, but also the interests of others.
  2. Find satisfaction in service.
  3. Determine life’s true priorities and fanatically pursue those things.
  4. Be a mentor and let someone mentor you.
  5. Do what you know is right even when you don’t feel like it.
  6. Ask people about their lives and be prepared to listen.
  7. Clean up the mess. Do what others think is beneath them.
  8. Apologize when you make a mistake.
  9. Be a principle-based person who does what is right, not just what is expedient or lucrative.
  10. Honor those who are older.

Do you have any heroes you want to honor? What are other ways to be a superhero without any supernatural abilities?


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The Last Lecture

Most likely you have heard of Randy Pausch in the media over the last year and a half. Here is the original video link to his “The Last Lecture”. Share with us your thoughts after watching the lecture.

How to Feel Inspired When You’ve Lost Motivation

Some days you wake up and right when you are going to begin your work, you feel a presence within you that stops you from doing so. You sit down, but you sit down quietly this time. Suddenly, that feeling where you once were so passionate and energized to take action just isn’t there anymore. You try to hype yourself up but it’s not working, and everything you do seems to be counterintuitive. You face the truth. You don’t want to work today and you don’t feel motivated to do anything but just escape. Without this motivation, you feel a little hopeless, lost, and stuck.

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The Science of Motivation

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